Dealing with hates

"Some people hate you because they see potential in what you'll become in the future and that they can't get what you have." 

I personally deal with a lot of hates on my social media, I get hate comments, hate emails, hate messages and hate questions on my ask.fm page and I'm going to answer some of them here :

1. "bitch i know you do implants"

excuse me, mind your manners, i have never done any surgery on my body and especially for my breasts I have never deliberately do anything for it to be the way it is now. you guys have TO GET IT IN YOUR HEAD that i am 100% natural from the top to the fucking bottom hun. 

2. "you're fat and ugly i hate you"

firstly i want to apologise that I did not know my looks would matter so much to you that you have to say that and secondly i do not care what you think of me because as long as my friends, family and most important MYSELF thinks that I'm beautiful the way i am now, then that's all that matters. lastly, your comment about me is literally irrelevant so get lost? 

3. "why do you think so highly of yourself"

i honestly don't think so highly of myself than how you think of me. but that's cute, it's cute to see that you actually think that i think so highly of myself which is funny cause i don't, so technically it's you who's thinking highly of me. :-) 

4. "you're such a spoilt brat, your parents spoil you too much"

in one of my blogposts, i admitted i am a little spoilt, which is true. i grew up in a beautiful family that's always so close together and my parents have always wanted the best for me in this world. that's my family and if you don't like the way how my dad and mom are raising me, you can confront them about it. 

5. "you don't ever have to work hard for anything, you get whoever and whatever you want" 

i work hard, who the fuck says i don't work hard to get what i want? i study, i don't get my grades with just a blink of an eye, i still do my work and put in the effort to get what i want. and by getting whoever i want, if you're saying in terms of guys, ask all my friends how much effort i put in to getting the guy that i want? so bitch if you think you know me, you don't. 

6. "don't act all fake and nice when you're actually a bitch in real"

firstly, you wish you knew me in real and secondly, i'm not fake, you see only the things i allow you to see. 

7. "you sell your body for money" 

in which planet are you in? i have never sell any part of my body for any money and i will never do that, as much as you hate me, i do have moral values. 

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A lot of you asked me how do i deal with hate? You don't really deal with hate, you just don't let it get to you inside. Sometimes it's really hard, because i know it's hard finding out and knowing that there's someone out there not wanting your existence, but hey, you exist and you're beautiful so why allow that to get to you? Why allow people that waste their mins in life doing nothing beneficial to themselves but instead spending time writing hate to you? So heads up, the world is yours to explore, you're beautiful and as long as you don't hate yourself the way others hate you, then there's still hope. 

"Even if the whole world is against you, you still have yourself to count on."

i love you, xoxo

lynn.

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